On the bright side, she does want to take steps back in this new relationship....
Can you point out where you see this exhibited? I just want to understand. I see her begrudgingly cooperating for the benefit of the kids and worrying about how OM is going to react.
I too see her begrudgingly cooperating for the benefit of the kids and worrying about how OM is going to react. She claims she was trying to put herself first for a change and she reluctantly admits she made a mistake. She has not suggested that she intends to stop dating this guy or to suddenly hide him from the kids...she only agreed to dramatically minimize the kids exposure to him. The only little thing that might possibly suggest that she still has feeling for me is her agreement to hold off on divorce if I stopped harassing her about seeing OM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09