On the bright side, she does want to take steps back in this new relationship....
Can you point out where you see this exhibited? I just want to understand. I see her begrudgingly cooperating for the benefit of the kids and worrying about how OM is going to react.
I am not trying to be negative. I just think it is very important to differentiate between the kid issues and the grown up issues. And, I want to get on the same page here if I can be of any help.