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[RedSoxFan]

OK so we just finished up a conversation. She basically says that she is going to correct the situation with OM. She says the kids will see very little of him but that she will not lie about dating him. She says he's putting a lot of pressure on her and I think she's afraid of how he'll react when she tells him she needs to back off. He's going to think its me working my way in to get her back (that's my thought not her words). I don't really feel completely comfortable with her solution though it is a big step from where we were. I have no rights by law unless the kids are in danger and they're not that I know of.

I also just found out that our kids know they're dating. She had told me previously that she told our kids that they were just friends and when she slept over she slept on his sofa. So his kids told our kids "isn't it cool that our parents are dating" What kind of selfish person would do something like that knowing the other woman was still married. Yuck

Part of me wonders if she's gotten herself into a position that its hard to get out of while saving face. Maybe wishful thinking on my part. I still believe she loves me and I still believe there is a chance.

So should I take this small win and keep pushing forward in the battle? Staying in her life and putting pressure on while he does the same?