Oh my. THANK YOU. You are so right. This is why I love coming here...I need people to put me in my place...because I don't know what to do or say.

It seems like when we talk he just gets angry and that is NOT the response I want from him. So what should I do now after this morning's episode? Should I apologize for making him angry or just leave it alone and act differently the next time I speak to him?

Before this all happened with us, people would refer to us as the "perfect" couple. We were happy, never fought, had fun together...people envied what we had. Until H fell off the deep end, met someone else and within 2 weeks decided this OW was the love of his life. Amazing how some people can just switch off their feelings so easily.