blah. Screwing another guy doesnt sound like remorse or Love to me.

These people are selfish and weak. There is NO EXCUSE for having an affair PERIOD.

When she is ready to do the WORK and wants to try to gain back your TRUST and RESPECT that is a different story.

Once again TWO WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT!!! If you are hurting if you feel trapped then do something about it. Ask to go to couseling. Ask for a seperation. File for Divorce. Start sleeping with someone else. WRONG!!! All that shows is how superficial and selfish she is. Especially when you are a parent.

At what point do you stop letting somebody stomp all over your boundaries and values. How can that person ever RESPECT a spouse that lets them take advantage of them like that?

I'm done making excuses for people that are too weak to do the work do make themselves happy.

PMA