3 years ago my husband was accused of having an affair with my best friend. I found out that he had a secret email address in which I had him delete. Someone that I work with had seen them together on work property in her mini van. I found a phone number too. When it all went down she acted very odd towards me and agitated and would not tell me things. I had a bad feeling that started the year before and I finally confronted her about it. She was very angry. I am not sure if it was EA or PA or one at all. I just had a nagging feeling. On the night it all went down he left and went to his sisters. He drained our bank account, took off his wedding ring and wanted a divorce. I convinced him otherwise. He stayed. As I said in my newcomers post he dropped the bomb on me on our 7th wedding anniversary. Before that I accused on a daily basis. He has erased internet histoy many times. Do you think it is still going on. Should I let it go? My marriage is failing and now he only sees me as a friend. We used to have so much passion. The OW has RUINED my life! She is very manipulative and devious and I despise her. I could not imagine the two of them in love as they have nothing in common other than me. I do work with her and I know that on his birthday she left work early. She has done things to try to be like me and many of my co-workers have taken notice. She pretends like she runs( I am a runner)...and other things she has pretended to be interested in..some of the same interests as my husband and myself.
