Should I demand that w completely removes OM from the lives of our children, basically causing her to reverse herself bigtime? If I do this I have no way to enforce it but she will likely comply while she moves forward with disillusion or more likely an expensive divorce at that point. You know the OM will pressure her to end it if I push him out. Is that the approach?

Should I ever consider discussing with him directly? If so when? If I make no progress with her?

Last edited by RedSoxFan; 08/19/09 09:42 PM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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