SG,

Thanks for sharing your sitch. It is amazing how many things you, I and the other LBHs have in common insofar as our circumstances are concerned. I suppose that you are fortunate given your current sitch that you guys don't have any kids. That makes things much more difficult. As a survivor of my own parent's divorce, I know what my children can expect to go through emotionally. My W, whose parents remain together, has no idea what a D will mean for our kids nor does she have any real interest to understand.

M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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