quick question before I had over to the wifes place. What I have been reading in DB is to focus on what has worked in the past for us to have good communication. I love to cook and I know what her favorite dishes are. Should I go over there and cook her favorite dish so it would be easier to have a conversation? When I cook she would sometimes help and we are happy that both of us are in the kitchen working together. Or is it too soon?

Last edited by rabbitae86; 08/19/09 09:29 PM.
Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09