Exposing affair - pros & cons

[hoosiermama]

I vote, "Don't tell unless you have to". Talk to your spouse first and ask her to stop, have one close friend come with you to ask her to stop, and if she doesn't....get a group from church to come talk to her. If that doesn't help, then expose more.....I believe it is fighting for your marriage in a fair way.

I like this approach. It's biblical.

Puppy

yes it is. which is why I chose it. it would probably blow up in your face very rarely--my sitch is not typical.