You know, looking back, I should have known years ago....
After we'd been married maybe four years or so (who knows, there were still dinosaurs around), W's best friend from college came to visit us. I don't remember any of the particulars, except that W said something that made her friend, who hardy knew me, criticize W's treatment of me. And of course, I think I defended W. I let it all happen. By the time I saw what I was doing, it was done.
But, I am a big "no regrets" person. There was good. There are great kids. I'm ok. And I've learned a lot. I am going to be happy, and I hope I get to take someone with me!
