I am all for your advice. I guess I've been looking at it like I walked out on her 10 months ago. How can I fault her for going on with her life? Admittedly we are not divorced and I still love her and want to save our family but she was just chugging along until I healed myself, popped up and asked her to reconcile. That must feel really rude from her perspective. I do want to give her a fair chance. The thing with the kids really complicates things and confuses me. In the end I have to put the kids first.
BTW. I am in no way afraid to act. I just want to be smart
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AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
