I like the line about faking it just enough to get her back. I hear on that. I think when this first started I was trying to become all the people she wanted me to be. The question was if she did come back then, which D1 would she be getting? And could I keep up the act. I have come to realize I can't change the person you are(what is in your soul). But there are many things you can do to make yourself a better person. So I have just tried to keep doing the things that make me feel good about myself. Some of the other stuff has dropped by the wayside.
It is amazing the mood swings my wife has on a daily basis. Today, as soon as I saw her in the morning--head down reading a magazine--minimal eye contact. Last night, she was asking me how my day at work was. Will see what kind of person I get when I come home from work tonight.
I also get your point on finding something else she doesn't like. In one of my "2 month" guilt letters to her, I listed the 18 things she has said in the last two months on what she didn't like about me..So you are right, this was number 19...
I am sure number 20 is right around the corner.
Thanks.
Remarried 6 mo S 12 S 13 S 16 SD 12 SD 16 SD 17 SS 19
