OK, sorry for the continuous streams of small posts.
When I talk to wife about the OM she's going to ask me how she should undo whats already been done. She asked me this before when I commented about her having them over there for sleepovers. She said she didn't want to hurt him. I told her I had no answer but that it was unhealthy for the kids. What should I tell her?? Can she pull the kids back without losing face?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09