Sandi has also taught me quite a bit about detatchment including the following quote from my thread which hit home ...
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When you finally drop that rope, then you won't CARE what she does and you won't discuss anthing with her b/c you DON'T CARE! Only you can reach that point in your attitude. Nobody can do it but you and once you're there.....you will feel it in your spirit b/c you will have a sense of peace and you'll stop thinking, worrying, and fretting over anything in this stitch. You will move forward with your own life. Isn't that worth achieving? That is the only thing that stands a chance in h3ll of your W ever stopping to consider that she might just be wrong in what she's doing. However, it will not work.....it simply CANNOT work as a ploy to get her to wake up and go back to you. You see, the WAW knows when you have truly dropped the rope. THEY KNOW! They can see it in your eyes and hear it in your voice. The see it in your attitude. THEY KNOW. You cannot fake it, you have to "arrive" at dropping the rope.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
