Separated and Stuck?

[eternaloptimist]

I decided to end my other post (my first one) b/c it was getting very long. But I put it in my siggy for reference.

The main thing I'm struggling with now is how to feel like I'm moving forward...and not feel stuck that we continue to grow apart as separated people. I think I'm ok with GALing and detaching b/c I think I am doing those things. I do not call him. I do not email him. I don't call his friends or family. We basically have almost no interaction at all.

Now that H has moved out, how can I set realistic goals for anything to progress in a positive way? I try to make sure each interaction is positive, not negative.

Any one else in this boat?