Yeah, well he has changed before and that change lasted a long time. He went back to his old ways after I started treating him like garbage and had those affairs. I bet he feels like he let me in his heart in the past only for me to crush it and now he thinks he can't ever let me in again. That's why he must be seeking all this control & power. I believe he can and will get help one day...it just may not be in time for us.
"And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."-Romans 8:28