Focus on those positives.
Pool can wait.
Daughter is, at least, going to college.
You have a car.
You ARE a mother.

Positives, my dear. You are focusing too much on Ex, too. Sorry for the tiny 2X4...but, I have been noticing the lonliness in your posts. You're too good for that. Focus on you and that babygirl. Come visit us.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him