Focus on those positives. Pool can wait. Daughter is, at least, going to college. You have a car. You ARE a mother.
Positives, my dear. You are focusing too much on Ex, too. Sorry for the tiny 2X4...but, I have been noticing the lonliness in your posts. You're too good for that. Focus on you and that babygirl. Come visit us.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him