I guess I just dont know for sure how to ask her to keep this guy out of my children's lives. She claims, hesitantly, that she thinks its OK.
Everything I read says don't introduce new partner until way after divorce and only when you know they'll be around for the long-term. Couple that with the fact that most relationships in the first year after divorce (and we're still married) don't succeed and that's good reason to not expose the children. But telling her that, and I have, just seems to make her angry. Maybe she thinks its all about me again...what I want, my terms, my schedule.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09