Hi, I am so sorry for the obvious pain that you are feeling.
First things first, believe me when I tell you that I understand you wanting to be there for your son and that you dont want him to lose hope. But, he is 29 years old and he needs to figure this out. While you absolutely should be there for him, ultimately, this is his journey to walk. Let him.
While I also know that I cant possibly know all there is to know about your situation, there are some things that I do know, having gone through this for a long time.
I would like to share them with you, if I may. I now know that happiness or fulfillment doesnt come from another person. I know that in order for us to be happy, we have to be happy with ourselves.
This dbing is not to fix our marriage. This journey we take, if we choose to, is to find us. Sometimes when we do that, a marriage can be saved or changed.
So, you are unhappy with how things are. Time to look inside yourself and figure out what you want and what changes you need to make to make YOU happy.
You cannot look to your h to do this, it has to come from inside you.
So, what can you do to change going through the motions in life and really grabbing life with both hands and going full in?
As you begin to feel alive again, alive with the possibilities, many things might happen. Your h finally did what he wanted to to fulfill his life's dream.
