One other thing Retrouvaille did for me was open my eyes up to just how much I wanted to save my marriage, and gave me the strength to persevere over some pretty rough times over the past six months. This was all despite the fact that W didn't put much effort into it even though we participated in all the post sessions. You have to go in willing to work on yourself and at the time I hadn't done that much in that area but it was a big motivator for me. W still hasn't really done much work on herself even through her own IC, but I hope your WASs will as a result of the program at least.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline