I will agree with the whole concept of respecting yourself. But something needs to be kept in mind - is her mental diagnosis.
I deal with a spouse with the same issues...and it becomes a whole new ballgame. Tristan is dealing with someone that may very possibly not react the same way most WAWs would.
Tristan, I think you're handling yourself and your wife very respectfully now. It's trying....and it seems you're not letting it really get you down.
