Newsflash - had a talk with W last night. Details later... In the end we talked about everything, and she is willing to start piecing!!!
This will also be a long slow process, but things already look promising. I've been waiting a loooong time to start this chapter. Btw, it was her idea to see the DB coach tomorrow!!! Wow!
More later...
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09