Women not only want to be rescued but they also want a knight that will first slay the dragon.
She is begging you to stand up and fight for her and your family.
If she doesnt wake up then she wasnt worth it anyway.
Have you read DB/DR. "Stop doing what doesn't work..."
Try taking other people's advice that have dealt with this before.
If she is done then she is done. You are just putting off the inevitable. I know you dont want to face it, but it just continue to eat away at your soul. You can always take her back if that's what you want. FOr now kick her azz to the curb and demand respect. Would you let your child walk all over like this. Would you let a 17 yr old teenage daughter say that "im staying over at my boyfriends house???" HELL NO!!! Well that's how your W is acting. DEMAND RESPECT!!!!