I agree. Time to man up! Women are attracted to men that demand respect.
You should be telling her that you are not sure what you want either. You are not sure that you want her. It's dead on about wanting what you can't have. Let her think she doesnt have you anymore.
How do you think the OM acted? Did he chase her or did he play hard to get.
Regardless of the guilt you feel you need to keep telling yourself "I DONT DESERVE THIS... I DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH LOVE AND RESPECT.... I AM A PERSON OF VALUE.... I DONT DESERVE TO BE CHEATED ON..."
Nice guys dont always have to finish last.
Take her cake away. If you dont you will be RESENTFUL and BITTER. It's just a matter of time.
