I had an appointment with a top D Lawyer myself a few months ago and also got similar kind of advice about the fact that D is highly likely in my situation, etc etc. I think all these guys ever see most of the time is situations that don't work out obviously since that is the business they are in - taking over the legal aspects of ending a M so it all makes sense that this would be typical feedback from a L.

Great to hear about your progress Thinker. The kinds of demand you put on your W about other Male friendships is exactly whatI would expect if we ever R.

I am happy that you and Orich are getting the opportunity to go to Retrouvaille. It is a fantastic program if both spouses have some interest in keeping the M. My W didn't have any interest when we went and was involved in an EA pretty heavily so it had little impact on her, and kind of drove her closer to OM. However, I know it helped others, even when there was an A going on.


ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline