Go for that job. It gets you back home and you don't manage a McDonalds. You don't even supervise. You have a very very specific skill set, hence why you had to take a job hours away in the first place.
Take the opportunity and apply for this job and let her know, "OH, yeah, I already knew about that job before you sent it to me, but thanks though."
Get back home to your boys CIPA. This is a no brainer.
Stronger,
There wasn't much question whether I would "apply", I'm just not going hold my breath waiting for it. I still have several recruiters working for me to find something. The crappy part of it is that I haven't gotten a single call since I started this job. I haven't stopped looking though.
As much as I would love to just have the kids and keep them away from the monster she has become, the right thing is that boys will need to see their mother. They should see their mother. I just want to minimize the damage to them as she goes down this horrible path.
So I am pursuing options of returning home, not just to improve my chances of getting primary, but also to be sure I can do what's best for the boys - seeing both their mother and father.
I still don't believe the future will hold a time where the woman I married appearing from the fog. I know you do. I'm trying to process all the emotions before I decide what I do. Ultimately though, it is out of my hands. Even if I do nothing, the divorce will be final Jan 2011
Holding on to believe
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
