That's so true Puppy. It's taking a toll on both of us. Just way too much stress!
I'd love to tell you the full complete story but it would just be way too long! Basically her H filed a restraining order against her as soon as she got out of the hospital so she couldn't even live in her own home. Classy guy - huh?! Yesterday at the hearing it was decided that they can all live on different floors of their home. He'd lied on the restraining order and didn't have a very good case. I can't see this situation working at all! Her H will continue to try and bait her and record what she says to use against her. I think money has become his god and all he cares about is how much he's going to have to pay her. And quite frankly, I'm not so sure that he's not trying to push her to commit suicide.
On a positive note, we leave Thursday night on our 25th anniversary trip. My H asked if we could leave Thursday nite instead of Friday morning and extend our trip a little bit.
My H has said he knows that we are going to work things out, it's just going to take some time. We spent the weekend together at the lake. He did a lot of talking about the future (for example, where we want to live after our youngest son graduates from high school).
I think the individual counseling for him will be a huge help. I continue to see my counselor every other week.
Anyway, I'll let you know how the anniversary trip goes! Take care! Best wishes!
