Ya know, I'm probably not the best qualified to advise you on precisely what to do, but I bet Coach can. You could file for D w/o throwing her out, or you could have a sit-down where you tell her that the situation as it stands is untenable, and that you will file for D if she does not end the A.
Coach? Am I missing anything?
Well, I'm Catholic, and have a strong commitment to our marriage. Filing for divorce is not something I would ever do. If we go down that road it will be all on her. That kind of makes any ultimatum worthless. She knows I won't file.
That's why I'm pretty much stuck in waiting it out.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
