I highly recommend NOT getting a tattoo at this juncture. The likelihood that what we would choose today will match what we want etched on our bodies a year from now is pretty slim.
I can't even decide what I want for lunch, where I want to live, how I want to make a living...I sure as sh*t am not gonna commit to branding something on my bod.
I'm going with the stamp idea instead! Ha, how funny would that be? I can stamp "handle it" on my a** to give future mate a heads up when he's not TCB.
This conversation should stay in jest. Just my two cents.
today is 14 year anniversary of when h and i went from friends to lovers...
That's Easter for us. We spent three days and nights closeted in my bedroom in my grad-student, 4-roommates house with a sign on the fridge that said, "You have not seen us. You do not know where we are. These are not the droids you're looking for."
And even during the sep. we each get mushy and call or email each other on Easter, V-day and on our anniversary.
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The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
Our first night together was wonderful. Our wedding was wonderful. So much of our life together was wonderful. And I can think about without crying and wanting to impale myself. I am grateful for the memories.
Of course, there is a little twang of sadness but it is manageable...