Coach knows his mojo, pigskin. I do think there is a time to wait and a time to act, but only you can make that call.
Something I should add - if, on the very day I found out about H's affair, I had told him unequivocally to end it if he wanted any chance of saving our marriage, I am dead certain he would have ended it. One of the great tragedies of my sitch is that I ran instead.
I appreciate the comments coach and dia.
The time to act is coming, but I am seeing positive signs in my wife, so I am continuing to do what seems to be working. Going dark is too much like I was before, so I don't see that as an option.
She has depression and a host of other nagging medical issues, so kicking her out the door is not something I am prepared to do right now. Again - only she can stop the EA. What action can I take to stop it?
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
