The detachment v. withdrawal thing is a real issue. Detachment is healthy in our sitchs. Withdrawal is a defensive mechanism (consciously or subconsciously) to minimize the hurt you fear might come or it can simply be anger at what she's doing. I understand it, b/c I'm there too.
Yep, withdrawal is fear based. Not the vibe you want to project. Detachment means you can thrive with either outcome - reconciliation or D. Stockdale Paradox/Spiers Doctrine. You are already dead, so don't fear any Mo Fo.
Which demeanor, attitude, mojo, vibe, or presence do you want to project? You are being watched closely.
Strength and Honor Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
