Well I did manage to get up peoples noses last night. It was a FABULOUS night.
Starting at my local. "friend" was there. Had a small chat. Quite pleasant. And then overheard two things.
1. "friend" is now giving advice to a guy who's marriage is in trouble. God help him. 2. Heard her tell this guy and everyone else in hearing distance, all about the breakfast the other night, going out to Hemisphere last night and and and.....
So - off to the "do". Great night. Even down to valet parking
Sent an SMS to W.
"Sorry you didn't pitch. Ticket was waiting. Great night. No idea why "friend" is so pi$$ed off with me and DONT care. Next time! Hugs"
And 2 back....
"Sorry wrong number try again. This is not X this is W"
(X was someone that came with boyfriend)
"Why suddenly have such a great time. Non off this when I was there. To late sorry. Maybe X will enjoy your company"
And me back (sorry!!!!)
"Not X not anyone else. Never to late"
A few short texts later and then this back from W...
"Dont try it should have come naturally. Sleep it off"
Re: positives - Yes. Jealousy indicates attachment. Yes, she's expressing it negatively but if she's jealous and angry, she's hurt. And if she's jealous, angry and hurt, she still cares. And the more intense the negative emotion appears, the stronger the attachment actually is.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
Glad to see you are still with us. Glad you have been having a good time. Sounds like your W is still very much attached (showing jealousy) to you, but they have funny ways of showing it. I have given up trying to work out how their minds are working at present.
"Having such a good time with mainstay at the barrel. It is something that you should have done. Your loss."
and a little later....
"Wonder why your phone is off? Can not take the punch off the jolling life."
And my reply this morning.....
"U have no idea what a hangover I had ;-) wish I'd left phone on. Would have gone 2 barrel like a shot. Hugs honey. May pluck up the courage to phone u a little later. Really happy u got on with main. And the ticket was 4 u. "M A" said she would call u Wednesday pm."
