What do you mean past the point of flirting? I must have missed something. Margharitas sound great. That's such a good summer drink. How are you doing?
I am seeing my stbX in a few minutes for the first time after all this happened. I am going out. I look hot!! And I have a plan. So, I guess, you could say I am ok. Not great, not happy, but OK.
After all he did, I think he should feel worse than I do, right? K
passed flirting...hmmm hard to explain. Long story. Once upon a time there was a Princess...
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Ok Ok...so you are flirting with your Husband???? You look hot because you are going out but you also want to show him what he gave up??? Hmmm....I am starting to be quite the student of the female psyche... Let us know how it went....
Well, he just left. I didnt let him in. Left the suitcase at the stairs. He walked up and said :my top at the car just broke. I looked at him (no we are not changing cars), kissed my kids, my son told him "mom is going on a trip" and they left. I closed the door the minute the kids turned their backs...
And there is STILL a Princess... just kissed a frog.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Good job today. He gets to see what he's missing. You showed yourself you can and will move on from him. You dressed up for yourself and your fun night tonight.
Will Rogers once wrote: "Life is a funny teacher. First comes the test, then comes the lesson."
We're all learning lessons after we've taken the tests. However, what we learn and how we are able to apply it is far more important in the long run.
You are doing very well w/your studies, my friend. I'm so glad for your haircut and going out (although Tex-Mex in Athens is a bit scary - kind of like Chinese in North Dakota).
Enjoy the margaritas, the company, and the chance to be out and enjoying life for you.