I think part of the trouble is that I’m already strong, capable and so on. My H complained that I didn’t need him (one of the reasons he left) and OW is certainly the simpering type. He will I hope revert to type and decide that he wants someone a bit more independent. However if I ask him to do something for me (a 180) he ignores my request. My view is that I have to get on with it, I don’t expect any comment much less compliment. That’s just the way it is.
Dammed if I do, dammed if I don’t.
This will be a hard nut to crack.
Email conv not going well, still being ignored. Continue for a while longer or do darker?
