Well the neediness thing is a button for me. My X justified starting his A because my younger sister, who was 39 at the time had a series of strokes and almost died. She's in Florida, not married, so all she has is my parents, who were 72 and me. So I spent the summer flying back and forth to be w/her, then help with her recovery. But I was flying back and forth, never gone for more than five days. Took various kids back and forth w/me.
And all he could talk about was how I was "abandoning" him, he had a lateral change in his job, and how was he supposed to feel "supported", blah, blah, blah.
So in the end, I'm sitting in the ICU w/ my sister, and he starts up w/someone else. Blech!!
Sorry to spew all this, but that's why I have the whole fear of someone too needy.
Well back to work, 183 boxes to unpack. And not getting one penny - oh well, we teachers do all this for the children. And it is my decision to go in before we're on the "clock" but I'd never be able to get it done in time, and it wouldn't be as nice for the children.
That's a funny dream. But if it was me, I would've been taking names and kick a$$e$!!!
Back to work - miles to go before I sleep.
Stacy ((((Jeff))))
Sorry so long! I had a long one to MB this morning too!
