The communication thing sounds really good. My W and I are both very good at not telling each other when something is bothering us, and we never used to talk at all about our R. We have held on and stewed about things, and for her, it came to a point where she lost her feelings for me because of it. I hope and pray that we both are able to do 180's in this area and really build up our M again. Fortunately, W is not in any EAs or PAs, but she does have one foot out the door, so we will see how much effort she puts into the weekend. I don't expect a miracle, but I do expect at least to have a clearer idea which way we are going afterwards. I think for her, if she isn't impressed, it might mean finally pulling the trigger. We'll see.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
