I always was suspect the IC session my W was having as well. Seemed like every time she would go there would be a greater distance between us. I asked her how much time she spent talking about me. Answer about 50%!
Pigskin, I haven't followed you sitch. What were the result from Retro?
Well we finished the last of the post sessions and I have to say communication is MUCH better. No more holding on and stewing over things that are bothering us. If we have an issue, we discuss it immediately, which helps immensely.
It did not break my wife's EA, unfortunately (and technically all 3rd party relationships are encouraged to be ended before attending but we didn't want to wait for that). And it was tough on us; my wife even sent email to her OM following one of the most emotional days saying she loved and missed him. Very tough to take. She never had a "breakthrough" during the program, but we both feel it was very beneficial to both of us and can only help us going forward. Highly recommend it to everyone. Just don't expect a miracle.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
