Thank you for your comments over at my place. Yours is one of the situations I've been watching because the whole 'using God' thing is just so... incredible.
I feel for you. Stick with those 180s. As an almost WAW, I can tell you that it took about 2-3 months, maybe 4, for some of H's changes to really sink in with me. During that time, he saw nothing of the turmoil that was going on inside me, so don't worry if nothing seems to be sinking in with her. I also definitely had a case of 'resentment flu' as described in the Mars/Venus book. Give it some time and keep the faith. And believe me - I know how hard that is.
Last edited by Dia; 08/19/0902:34 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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