I am a bit annoyed with my W at this moment.

She's been going to psychics and going heavy into 'The Secret' and the "Law of Attraction" and such, which is fine by me, having a good positive outlook and attitude is important about everything, financial and otherwise, and I am all for that. It also requires action at some point, in my mind, but she is not of that notion, and feels that things will just come to her when the time is right. That's her right, and I wish her the best.

However, last night, I guess she played the lottery, and had my d8 convinced they were going to win, so much so that d8 could not fall asleep as she was so excited about having money, and was building lists of things she was going to buy and do today as soon as they won.

The look in my d8's eyes was intense, and if they don't win, I hope she is not too hurt, putting so much faith into a lottery!

Nothing I can do about is, so just venting a bit, she'll be fine I am sure, just don't want disappointment like that all the time when they don't get what they are wishing for.


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."