Very good for you. I am no where near ready.... for a new job. KIDDING. For a boy, er man.
And however painful the "process", there is some good to come of it in the end. We do learn from the experience.
I wanted my exh back soooo bad, and he was such an unbelievable jerk. Being the LBS, I really had the rosey glasses on. For the 1st year or so after our spilt, he could only the bad parts of our m, and I could only see the good parts. At this point, I can barely remember that it ever was good. I have such disdain for that man. Drinking too much and making sloppy decisions that affected me and my D. I wish I were indifferent towards him, but I actually hate him. I never want to speak to him or see him again in my entire life. :-)
Tell us more about the boy? oh, and the job.