Mach - You just said what I wanted to say w/eloquence!
MB's version: "Dude H, I know you want a D/S. I don't think I'm done trying to reconcile this one yet. I may be in the future, but not until I know I've done all I could to make this work. I love you. If you want a D/S, you'll need to initiate the appointments/discussions. I won't stand in your way, but I won't make it easier either."
HUGS FRIEND!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.