By the way, W's birthday is Monday. How should I approach it? I will certainly get cards and a gift from the boys to her, but what about me? For my birthday she gave me a gift card to a clothing store, and no birthday card. I want to get her something I know she really wants, but should I? And what about a card? I don't want to pursue, but at the same time I don't want to be a jerk. Any thoughts or ideas?
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.