By the way, W's birthday is Monday. How should I approach it? I will certainly get cards and a gift from the boys to her, but what about me? For my birthday she gave me a gift card to a clothing store, and no birthday card. I want to get her something I know she really wants, but should I? And what about a card? I don't want to pursue, but at the same time I don't want to be a jerk. Any thoughts or ideas?


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.