I have a few things that I would like to do. I am not sure of the best way to inform W of those things. Do I just tell her I won't be home? Do I tell her where I am going? Do I ask her to go? Do I assume she will be home that night for the kids? We live in the same house, still. I have in the past told her I was going fishing after dinner on a few nights. But I want to go to a couple of all day events, one might even involve staying overnight. What is the correct way to tell her I intend to attend these events?


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.