UPSIDE DOWN and struggling badly.

[SDFoundGirl]

Why don't you post your possible email response to H here and we can give you feedback? Keep it easy, breezy and upbeat.

BTW, in an earlier post you commented about not being able to read into your H's behaviors because he's not around. YOU SHOULD NEVER TRY TO READ INTO YOUR H'S BEHAVIORS. First, you have no idea why he's doing what he's doing. Second, that would mean you are making changes for him instead of for yourself, and the honest truth is that you will eventually become resentful if the focus is on him instead of YOU. Yes, you're hoping H notices the positive changes, but the changes have to be ones you're making for yourself to make you stronger, smarter and healthier in life.

SD