Once I sprung the news on her a few weeks back that I loved her and wanted to save our family, she became very upset. I think has been struggling to keep up at home and struggling financially. I already contribute significantly more to her household (she lives in our house I rent apartment)than I would be required to by law. I've been trying to be her friend. Help her in any way I can. Cover more financial stuff whenever possible, etc. I think I'm doing the right thing. I care about her and want to help. I want her to be less stressed so that life is better for our kids when they're all together. I know I caused all of this and I want to make it right. Others have suggested that I'm just making it easier for her to be at peace and spend time with the other man. I'm so afraid of losing her./ I'm so scared and hurt.


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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