Michelle, I think the other thing that blew my self esteem was pre-DBing and spending 6 months doing things that weren't working. Crying, pursuing, begging etc. It was awful! I can really see now how unattractive that was.
MsM, He really does seem on one doesn't he. I wonder where it'll take him. I can see why it would be so hard to up sticks and come back to me, it would take a lot of strength.
GAG, I will think about your suggestion re the cat. It would be the ultimate to give the new cat a present. H lived in London (as did I) before we met AND after the separation at his parents flat there. I will talk about stuff I have been doing when I next see him.
Cas, it was a little scary turning down the invite. I hope I did the right thing.
So, I am feeling slightly anxious as I made a bold move for me earlier and commented on H's status on FB. I am thinking perhaps that is too much? Too open? I don't know why it is stressing me so much!
