Hi Mdoodles,

I have to say it again.....I am so proud of you!!!!

You have done everything right. You and little son will be fine and your future will be wonderful. You have strength and beauty and independence, good things will come to you both.

Thanks for asking about me. At this point in time, H has to do the work if he wants us. I am at the end of the road for what I can do. All I can do is maintain current attitudes and behaviors. I don't even have to try anymore since it's who I am now.

I did get a positive on Sunday. I hate to write about my sitch now, I can't explain it. Is that wierd or what?

I will write about it on my thread when I return from work.

I hope you keep posting, it will be fun to read good things about you both. I am anxious to read how the first day of school goes for little son. Are there any little kids in your complex for him to play with?

Are you actively seeking employment now that the move is behind you? If you are, patience will pay off. I am a self employed individual. I started to put the word out about 8 months ago that I wanted to pick up another job. It was about a month ago now that someone called me with an offer. I have now had a second job for 4 weeks. It will be a good job, I hope. The boss is a challenge. I find him a bit arrogant and his tone and words are condescending. I am a bit afraid of him. I want to give it a real chance before I say something.

I have to get to work, I wish you a very happy day.....

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11