thanks sanderika, i appreciate your kind words. i have made alot of progress huh ? lol...it feels like it happened over night but i think it was a long process where i knew i was done but didnt want to be. and then one day, i just had enough and have yet to look back. its rather freeing actually!

im busy preparing all of my information for the lawyer for my pendente lite. i have documented well and it has helped! i typed up all my informaton over the past year so i wouldnt forget anything.

and now he will be hit hard with everything he has done. he has no one to blame but himself.

i read your thread, im sorry u arent seeing any changes in your h. maybe u still will. is there anything u can change to spark the change in him?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09