i think u should attempt to put your mind back into the moving on mode. i think u had the most success that way, for your own emotions and your husbands.
he is never going to change until he truly feels threatened that u are leaving. and those changes wont even stick unless your behaviors toward him stick.
am i making sense? u were doing so well, so moving on with your life, comfortable with the sep. agreement and he sucked u back in. now he can behave however he wants, even if u rant and rave or not take his calls. he knows it will blow over.
dont feel bad, it happened to me too last year.
think about it, i think u were less stressed and happier when u were letting go. i think u should again, let it stick for a while, let him see u have had enough. and when he sees it and tries to suck u back in, then we can figure out how to handle it.
do i make sense?
im thinking the boundaries should be addressed at that point. i would step away for now and then revisit....what do u think?
i amusing myself that im talking from such a different place now!
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
